Coming from a big family myself I know that my parents didn’t always have the time that I needed/wanted and sometimes they had to chose one event over another. When there are music recitals, band concerts, chior or sporting events all in the smae night.. how do you decide which childs event you’re going to attend and see and which child just has to perform without seeing your freindly face in the crowd.

Thank you!

So, we can be on 4+ different pages when we speak of love.
She will always have “motherly love” for her kids. Saying “I love you” is not the same thing as showing it. Her kids will always be precious to her but those are only feelings (If I murdered someone, feeling sorry isn’t going to bring that person back).

Kids deserve better than “just being a number.”

There are many small families 1-3 kids and their parents never have time (a language of love) for them. We’re talking about 14 kids and a crazy mom… What time?

You thought you knew
what love was
before your child got into your heart

There is no limit
no measure
no end to this love

You belong. . .
literally…to each other

That little girl is yours, and you are hers.
That boy is priceless . . . the joy of your soul

If we take care of the moments
The years will take care of themselves.
Maria Edgeworth

To the world you may be just one person…but to one person
you might just be the world,

- Words of Affirmation
- Quality Time
- Receiving Gifts
- Acts of Service
- Physical Touch

The same is probably true for children. Each of the 5 languages either take time or/and require money. Quattrodeca mom doesn’t have much money or time (she intends to work full-time). For young children, they need to hear that their mother loves them, they need to be held and touched, and they need to have time spent with them.

Lets say that her love multiplies, but she is still only one person and there is only so much of her to go around. These kids do not have a father who would not only be another person that would love them but also a father figure.

Quattrodeca mom didn’t want another 8. She wanted one more baby but knew she might have twins (because of procedure). She might be having babies for the wrong reasons (I’m not even going into the financial aspect). Some people are addicted to being pregnant or caring for a newborn. Last week her 911 call was released to the public where she called 911 thinking that she lost one of her 6 kids. Is this someone that can take care of 14 when she is barely managing 6?

This mother of 14 is not be “all there” in her head. You heard about the plastic surgery right? Plastic surgeon Dr. Jennifer: “Nadya Suleman seems to have altered her face in attempts to resemble Angelina Jolie. She looks like she has had lip soft tissue fillers, Botox and possible cheek implants and a rhinoplasty.”