Comments on: My Boyfriend Isn’t Jerkbroken http://kiptip.com/letters/dear-kip/03/26/2009/my-boyfriend-isnt-jerkbroken/ Kip helps you answer all of those tough questions... with a pinch of soviet love! Sun, 18 Dec 2011 16:37:06 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: eyeman http://kiptip.com/letters/dear-kip/03/26/2009/my-boyfriend-isnt-jerkbroken/comment-page-1/#comment-1132 eyeman Thu, 07 May 2009 16:29:41 +0000 http://kiptip.com/?p=1027#comment-1132 ehm. dog? its really bad nickname. But its up to you to call him whatever nickname.. ehm. dog? its really bad nickname. But its up to you to call him whatever nickname..

]]> By: Carl http://kiptip.com/letters/dear-kip/03/26/2009/my-boyfriend-isnt-jerkbroken/comment-page-1/#comment-850 Carl Tue, 07 Apr 2009 18:49:19 +0000 http://kiptip.com/?p=1027#comment-850 Dear Sick of Your Games, Dump him and move on... Dear Sick of Your Games,

Dump him and move on…

]]> By: Paul http://kiptip.com/letters/dear-kip/03/26/2009/my-boyfriend-isnt-jerkbroken/comment-page-1/#comment-719 Paul Tue, 31 Mar 2009 20:54:38 +0000 http://kiptip.com/?p=1027#comment-719 By the way kip, we had a few dogs back in the days and we trained them ourselves, the newspaper thing works. Not on the back of the head, but you gotta hit the dog on his/her nose, and not hard. The nose of a dog is very sensitive and they dont like when anyone touches it. So instead of smaking your boyfreind on the head with a newspaper, save the earth, dont subscribe to newspapers, buy a steel mini bat and smack your boyfreind in the balls next time he says anything mean to you. My other advice, get rid of him... By the way kip, we had a few dogs back in the days and we trained them ourselves, the newspaper thing works. Not on the back of the head, but you gotta hit the dog on his/her nose, and not hard. The nose of a dog is very sensitive and they dont like when anyone touches it.

So instead of smaking your boyfreind on the head with a newspaper, save the earth, dont subscribe to newspapers, buy a steel mini bat and smack your boyfreind in the balls next time he says anything mean to you.

My other advice, get rid of him…

]]> By: Static http://kiptip.com/letters/dear-kip/03/26/2009/my-boyfriend-isnt-jerkbroken/comment-page-1/#comment-700 Static Sun, 29 Mar 2009 23:50:25 +0000 http://kiptip.com/?p=1027#comment-700 What might that be like...hmmm.. "Hi, my name is Earl. I am 93 years young and I want to offer my relationship advice. Don't ever, ever cross your woman. Quicker than you can bat an eyeball, she'll whip out a rolled up newspaper from her purse and administer 2 to 3 doses of treatments to the back of your head. And let me tell you that kind of punishment will set anybody straight." What might that be like…hmmm..

“Hi, my name is Earl. I am 93 years young and I want to offer my relationship advice. Don’t ever, ever cross your woman. Quicker than you can bat an eyeball, she’ll whip out a rolled up newspaper from her purse and administer 2 to 3 doses of treatments to the back of your head. And let me tell you that kind of punishment will set anybody straight.”

]]> By: MissLiLLy http://kiptip.com/letters/dear-kip/03/26/2009/my-boyfriend-isnt-jerkbroken/comment-page-1/#comment-696 MissLiLLy Sun, 29 Mar 2009 18:19:03 +0000 http://kiptip.com/?p=1027#comment-696 Well when a guy offers to take me on a date...and he's not my bf yet but yet its not just friends hanging out cause its a date... wouldn't that be considered "dating". Especailly if there are multiple dates with the same person but you're not in a relationship?! I don't see it as we're "just friends" nor are we a couple. We are dating, or the new popular term "talking". There are multiple reasons why a guy isn't upgraded to "boyfriend" status. But I'll tell you one thing... when I decide that this guy isn't going to reach that status in my life, I let him go because there isn't any point in leading any guy on. If he wants to remain friends after that.. AWESOME. Most guys get butt hurt though... sadly. But its cool... I have many guy friends. Well when a guy offers to take me on a date…and he’s not my bf yet but yet its not just friends hanging out cause its a date… wouldn’t that be considered “dating”. Especailly if there are multiple dates with the same person but you’re not in a relationship?!

I don’t see it as we’re “just friends” nor are we a couple. We are dating, or the new popular term “talking”.

There are multiple reasons why a guy isn’t upgraded to “boyfriend” status. But I’ll tell you one thing… when I decide that this guy isn’t going to reach that status in my life, I let him go because there isn’t any point in leading any guy on. If he wants to remain friends after that.. AWESOME. Most guys get butt hurt though… sadly. But its cool… I have many guy friends.

]]> By: Kip http://kiptip.com/letters/dear-kip/03/26/2009/my-boyfriend-isnt-jerkbroken/comment-page-1/#comment-688 Kip Sat, 28 Mar 2009 20:22:59 +0000 http://kiptip.com/?p=1027#comment-688 LOL! Your methods are very interesting. What you call "dating" is what I call hanging out with a friend. What do you call it when you're dating a boyfriend (same thing)? Basically what you are doing is reaffirming to the guy that you two are still what you were before the date, just friends. The reason why he didn't get upgraded to boyfriend is because you "didn't feel him." You observe his reactions and go home. :) LOL! Your methods are very interesting. What you call “dating” is what I call hanging out with a friend. What do you call it when you’re dating a boyfriend (same thing)?

Basically what you are doing is reaffirming to the guy that you two are still what you were before the date, just friends. The reason why he didn’t get upgraded to boyfriend is because you “didn’t feel him.” You observe his reactions and go home. :)

]]> By: MissLiLLy http://kiptip.com/letters/dear-kip/03/26/2009/my-boyfriend-isnt-jerkbroken/comment-page-1/#comment-686 MissLiLLy Sat, 28 Mar 2009 18:52:42 +0000 http://kiptip.com/?p=1027#comment-686 Every guy likes a little teasing.. him saying stop would mean hes a wussy.. and I dont like wussies! :) I am not refering to boyfriends though. I date guys without them being my bf! lol... dating is what happens before anything if "official" or "exclusive". Dating is just that... going out togheter, spending some time together, figuring out if this is worth investing in. Besides you gotta play the game... even those guys who say "I dont like to play games" all want a "chase". Might as well give them one and see who's witty enough and fast enough to catch up and catch me. If Im "not feeling" someone completely they ain't even getting a coffee date out of me. F that mess! :) haha Every guy likes a little teasing.. him saying stop would mean hes a wussy.. and I dont like wussies! :)

I am not refering to boyfriends though. I date guys without them being my bf! lol… dating is what happens before anything if “official” or “exclusive”. Dating is just that… going out togheter, spending some time together, figuring out if this is worth investing in. Besides you gotta play the game… even those guys who say “I dont like to play games” all want a “chase”. Might as well give them one and see who’s witty enough and fast enough to catch up and catch me.

If Im “not feeling” someone completely they ain’t even getting a coffee date out of me. F that mess! :) haha

]]> By: Kip http://kiptip.com/letters/dear-kip/03/26/2009/my-boyfriend-isnt-jerkbroken/comment-page-1/#comment-683 Kip Sat, 28 Mar 2009 05:35:15 +0000 http://kiptip.com/?p=1027#comment-683 Would you continue teasing him that way if he asks you to stop? I assume that when you say "I usually do this to guys," you are referring to boyfriends, right? If yes, why are you dating him if you haven't decided if you really want a relationship with him? That would be equivalent to being on a roller coaster ride and in the middle of the ride to decide that you don't want to go on the ride that you are already on. It's a bit late for that. ;) I find it interesting how people on reality shows let the other person know that they "aren't feeling them." They say: "I'm not feeling you, what going on?" If only life was more like reality shows (the shows are fake)... :P Would you continue teasing him that way if he asks you to stop?

I assume that when you say “I usually do this to guys,” you are referring to boyfriends, right? If yes, why are you dating him if you haven’t decided if you really want a relationship with him? That would be equivalent to being on a roller coaster ride and in the middle of the ride to decide that you don’t want to go on the ride that you are already on. It’s a bit late for that. ;)

I find it interesting how people on reality shows let the other person know that they “aren’t feeling them.” They say: “I’m not feeling you, what going on?” If only life was more like reality shows (the shows are fake)… :P

]]> By: MissLiLLy http://kiptip.com/letters/dear-kip/03/26/2009/my-boyfriend-isnt-jerkbroken/comment-page-1/#comment-681 MissLiLLy Fri, 27 Mar 2009 17:00:38 +0000 http://kiptip.com/?p=1027#comment-681 The thing is that some people like to tease that way. Like the "we're only friends" part. Im speaking from personal exprience... i.e. I usually do this to guys. haha poor guys But I only do it when i'm not really feeling the guy.. or havent really decided if I'd want to really have a relationship or not with him. Kinda to gauge his reaction and clue him in that I'm undecided. The thing is that some people like to tease that way. Like the “we’re only friends” part.

Im speaking from personal exprience… i.e. I usually do this to guys. haha poor guys
But I only do it when i’m not really feeling the guy.. or havent really decided if I’d want to really have a relationship or not with him. Kinda to gauge his reaction and clue him in that I’m undecided.

]]> By: Kip http://kiptip.com/letters/dear-kip/03/26/2009/my-boyfriend-isnt-jerkbroken/comment-page-1/#comment-680 Kip Fri, 27 Mar 2009 16:31:30 +0000 http://kiptip.com/?p=1027#comment-680 I remember seeing an episode of "Malcolm In The Middle" where Lois finds out that Hal loves her more. Hal isn't capable of noticing (being attracted) other women but Lois. Very funny stuff! @Lucy, he's a great guy based off of how much worse her previous relationships were. I remember seeing an episode of “Malcolm In The Middle” where Lois finds out that Hal loves her more. Hal isn’t capable of noticing (being attracted) other women but Lois. Very funny stuff!

@Lucy, he’s a great guy based off of how much worse her previous relationships were.

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