Bizarre Love
[ Bizarre Love ]
Dear Kip,
I have met a guy named “Paul” and over the last months I have fallen in love with him (I’m female). He cooks, dresses nicely, understands me, and is almost a perfect guy. Yes, he is gay. I have tried to fix him in every way possible but nothing works. I even think he has a crush on one of my guy friends. But, it is not like there is no hope for us; I have the feeling that he will be okay in marrying me if I have his baby. I do not want a gay husband! What should I do? Kip, please help me with my problem…
- BIZARRE LOVE
Dear BIZARRE LOVE,
Society and Hollywood have been spoon-feeding everybody crap that “homosexuality is normal” and “being gay or lesbian is natural.” Yeah, as "normal" and as "natural" as Zoophilia! Disgusting! Wrong! Unnatural!
Homosexuality is a mental disorder and unfortunately Paul is suffering from it. There isn’t much you can do alone to cure him. Maybe if there was societal pressure to "encourage" him to change but that kind of societal pressure exists in countries such as Afghanistan, Iraq, and similar countries. I highly doubt that he would agree to go with you… Gameover, you lose, so let him go.
Having his baby is what you call hope?
Listen hon, you deserve a man that will love you back. He might be a 0 in the kitchen and maybe other areas but at least he’ll be a 10 in loving you. What is important to you? Stop wasting your time with Paul and make sure that you’re not looking for guys in places such as Craigslist. There is a saying in my ex-country “Not everything that glitters is gold.” While Paul may seem to be gold, he’s not, and only glitters.
Plus, what women would be okay with her man looking better and cooking better than her? Yes, this in itself is a deal breaker.
I’m sure that there are straight men “out there” that dress nice, cook, and etc. Go find him!
- Kip
Bizarre Love,
First of all, I’m not gay. LOL.
You know, most guys like watching lesbian woman make out and make love, is it the same for woman about men? maybe you don’t love him, maybe you just like the “gay” action?
Kip, Not to be rude or disrespectful in ANY way..but I HIGHLY disagree with your statement that “homosexuality is a disease”.
You can not “fix” a gay man/women.
If the world was feeding us crap about it being “right” we would have legal gay marriage. But we don’t. Saying that homosexuality is a disease is like saying “love” is. We all have our own interpretations of things. And I believe that “gay” is not just something sexual. It is in fact, or can be real LOVE. I think that Hollywood leads us to believe that this world is solely sex.
But it is possible for two people, of the same gender, to fall in love.
And it isn’t “unnatural”. It’s actually very natural for your body to feel things towards another human being.
Weather it is right to you or not.
It is possible, and it should not be looked at as a disease.
If it wasn’t meant to be,
It wouldn’t be.
Again.
Just Saying.
Um, i think this issue was over discussed a million times allready all over the world, one day sooner or later you will agree with Kip and me.
Or how about this.
15 The LORD God took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it. 16 And the LORD God commanded the man, “You are free to eat from any tree in the garden; 17 but you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat of it you will surely die.”
18 The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”
19 Now the LORD God had formed out of the ground all the beasts of the field and all the birds of the air. He brought them to the man to see what he would name them; and whatever the man called each living creature, that was its name. 20 So the man gave names to all the livestock, the birds of the air and all the beasts of the field.
But for Adam [g] no suitable helper was found. 21 So the LORD God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s ribs [h] and closed up the place with flesh. 22 Then the LORD God made a woman from the rib [i] he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.
23 The man said,
“This is now bone of my bones
and flesh of my flesh;
she shall be called ‘woman, [j] ‘
for she was taken out of man.”
24 For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.
25 The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame.
Get it?